Malicious Women - a blog about candles

Dystopian Hellscapes & The War On Women
Feb 23, 2024
Are you paying attention to what’s happening at the Supreme Court? If not, you need to because our rights AND our lives depend on it. There are multiple instances of carefully crafted lawsuits created specifically to slide up to the Supreme Court. A court which has a 6-3 conservative majority right now: The Sinister 6 and three liberals. Just by the sheer volume and type of lawsuits, the conservatives are telling us what rights they’d like to strip from women to keep all to themselves. Things like reproductive rights, how and when to have children, and basic life choice autonomy.
Mistakes, Management, & Motivation
Feb 06, 2024
When I sold my first candles on Facebook marketplace I was so proud and awestruck that women related to the messages on my candles. I was the first person to put real and raw messages on candles as a way to write our shit down, set our shit on fire and let that shit go. From almost day one the criticism began. “You know what you should do?” without me even asking. Family, friends, strangers, co-workers all telling me what I SHOULD do. I ignored all the advice for a very long time, confident in my ability to pour wax in jars, set up and run a production facility and post the real shit on social media.  
Amazon, Agony, and Apathy
Nov 10, 2023
The last couple of weeks have been so wild! It started with a phone call...
Stress, Sourdough and A Possible Shit Show Part 2
Oct 29, 2023
Welp...If you're here from the socials, please read Part 1. Video link below I honestly...
Stress, Sourdough and A Possible Shit Show Part 1
Oct 27, 2023
The past couple of weeks have been tough. I received a comment on one of...
Menopause, Ass Pellets, and Tears
Oct 13, 2023
Welp, it has officially happened. I am on the cusp of perimenopause and full beard...
Getting Ready!
Oct 02, 2023
The only thing I see when I look at these pictures, are scars. My husband and the Malicious Women tell me I am crazy. They tell me I am not seeing what other people see. I see scars. I scheduled this photo Wonder Woman photo shoot to honor the battles my body has fought, and continues to fight. To try and learn to love the scars, the stretch marks, and the skin that keeps trying to kill me.
20 Years in 2020  A 'How-To' Guide To Destroying A Marriage and Rebuilding, During A Global Pandemic.
Oct 02, 2023
A 'How-To' Guide To Destroying A Marriage and Rebuilding It Stronger, During A Global Pandemic.
Government Shutdown 2019 – A Candle For A Cause
Oct 02, 2023
On January 23, 2019, Lindsay Tarr came in to the Malicious Women Candle Co hoping to find a gift for her Federal Employee friend, who was currently on furlough. Lindsay asked if we had a Government Shutdown candle and I said “No…but we should!” 
So Much Nope - Infused With An Allergic Reaction To Exercise
Oct 02, 2023
For months, my jeans have been shrinking. I am now at the point where I air-dry all my clothes and they are still shrinking. I have this internal debate each time I do laundry like…”I’ve only worn these jeans three times…I have them perfectly stretched out…If I wash them, they will shrink and I will have to start the process all over again.”